Cuts and Bruises

[laurenmcoakley]

Hi Candle (and everyone),
I'm not positive, but I may have said something like "feeling like a 
dirty girl".  It wasn't said in the context that you seem to imply- 
I assure you it was something that was said in total jest, and 
certainly not to offend anyone or to be taken to heart.

I didn't expect a conversation on that topic to upset anyone, but we 
are on the internet and no one here can really know who is the 
person behind the screen and their true intentions.  

In any event, thank you for making me aware that we should be more 
careful about what we say in an environment such as this!

Lauren

--- In HPFGU-Movie at yahoogroups.com, Candle <silverstreams at s...> 
wrote:
>
> I was trying to look at it like people were just admiring that he 
was a hansome young man, but since people made a point of listing 
their ages and using phrases similar to (I don't remember the exact 
words, but "a dirty girl" rather negates the innocense of the 
handsome statement.
>    
>   Candle
> 
> Karen <kchuplis at a...> wrote:
>   >
> > I have tried not to say anything because I was hoping that this 
thread
> would die on it's own. I find it innappropriate to sexualize 
children.
> Children are terribly hurt by people who do not think that they 
are doing
> anything wrong. It's called pediphilia. I'm sure that if a man had 
said
> something similar about Emma then people would not have been as 
tollerant.
> Maybe for those of you who wish to continue to sexual children in 
this
> offensive manner, you could take this topic off list.
> >
> >   Sick to my stomach,
> >   Candle
> >
> 
> I didn't think anyone was being lascivious about it. Just admiring 
what a
> dashing and handsome young man he is becoming in this last film. 
I'm sorry
> you see it that way (and I include that for a man to say "Oo. That 
Emma is
> dreamy" would not make me feel that he is a child molester) IMO.
> 
> 
> 
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