Home Schooling
Amy Z
aiz24 at hotmail.com
Tue Sep 25 08:01:54 UTC 2001
David wrote:
> People here are often mildly hostile to home schooling on the
grounds
> that it removes children from important social contact. In a UK
> context the fact that wizarding folks avoid contact as much as
> possible with Muggles would make them seem pretty much
home-schooling
> types, i.e. afraid to expose their children to the 'real world'.
Wild neighing and stamping is heard as Amy's hobbyhorse rears up . . .
whoa, down, boy! Steady, there.
I'm a strong believer in hs-ing and plan to do it just as soon as I
have some school-aged children around here (under the usual
procedures, this takes several years to accomplish). In my case, one
of my reasons for wanting to hs my theoretical children is for them to
have =more= contact with the 'real world.' IMO, spending 6 hours a
day with one's own age cohort and almost no adults or older and
younger children, while very rewarding in its own way, lacks many of
the benefits that come from spending those same hours engaging with
members of the community of all ages, one's family, etc. Also, while
there isn't a lot of data on the subject, studies indicate that the
socialization of hs-ed children is on a par with public- and
private-schooled kids; in many ways hs-ed kids are more mature,
well-adjusted, etc. etc. The most common objection to hs-ing I have
heard here is the one you raise, but I have my own thoughts on the
socialization children receive in school and they are not generally
complimentary. There are lots of opportunities to learn to interact
with others besides the schools.
The U.S. movement is very varied and makes for strange bedfellows. A
lot of hs-ers here are fundamentalist Christians who dislike the
implicit (and sometimes explicit) secular teachings of the public
schools. Many people turn to hs-ing because their local schools are
not up to their standard, or don't meet their kids' special needs
(U.S. schools have to provide for kids with learning disabilities and
such, but special education, as it's called here, varies drastically
in quality from school to school, even from year to year). Many have
disagreements with the basic educational approach of the available
schools, or simply find that it doesn't work well for the child in
question. Some hs for only a couple of years. Some live far from
the nearest school--e.g. my home state is very rural and many kids
have to ride the bus for over an hour each way. Some parents are
indeed trying to keep tight control on their children's social
interactions, and in some cases this control is downright abusive.
But the hs-ing picture is much more complex than that.
All of that said, yes, hs-ing would be a natural option for a
community that lives in secret from most of its neighbors.
Amy
who is hoping to offer broomstick-flying lessons to her children
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