guys being asked to help was re: Amanda overshares

[pippin_999]

--- In HPFGU-OTChatter at y..., golden faile <golden_faile at y...> 
wrote:
>>>> Why should you even have to ask for help though( this is 
how I feel)? No one has to tell us what to do, why should we 
have to tell them? <<<<

This could be one  of those gender communications gap things: 
men don't pitch in before they're asked because that would be a 
negative comment on your competency. Sometimes it works to 
redistribute the tasks as a whole rather than try to get them to 
"help".

Pippin