MBTI/The Trio/Thinking&eeling
bbennett320178
bbennett at joymail.com
Tue Jan 29 19:50:41 UTC 2002
Hello, Barb - another NT! (don't know if I mentioned this before, but
most MB literature is written by NFs or NTs - we seem to have the
greatest interest in this stuff!)
Barb wrote:
<You make an excellent point. I think folks were labeling Harry an I
and Hermione an E (while most people appropriately labeled Ron an
E). Based on this approach, however, one has to call Harry an E and
Hermione an I. He definitely feels wearied by solitude (he had to
withstand years of it in his cupboard, didn't he.>
True, but Harry also seems very introspective. Being introverted
doesn't mean you can't bear the company of others, simply that you
need time for yourself more so than Extraverts, that you prefer
smaller groups, and that your focus is more internal than external.
Harry does want and need time with his friends, but he doesn't shy
away from spending time "in his head". In the MB class I took, the
instructor said "If you don't know what an Introvert is thinking, you
haven't asked, and if you don't know what an Extravert is thinking,
you haven't been listening." I see Harry as an Introvert, but both
Hermione and Ron as Extraverts (Hermione definitely has more I
tendencies than Ron, I think). Both Ron and Hermione are more
outspoken than Harry, and both are usually eager to share what's on
their minds.
<Hermione, on the other hand, is happy to spend hours in the library,
even alone. She gathers information. She's a huge S, whereas the
boys are both Ns; Ron's inadvertant correct predictions (the ones
that make people persist in saying he might be a seer) are an
example of this, whereas Harry's sometimes lucky guesses also fall
into this category>
I thought of Harry as an N originally, but the more I read on
personality typing, the more I'm pretty convinced he's an S. A strong
aspect of NTs are their knowledge seeking desires and their love of
playing with theories and ideas; Harry seems to be much more of
a "here and now" kind of guy. SPs, on the other hand, are Artisans -
most of our athletes, actors, and musicians are SPs. Harry's talent
with Quidditch is a tip off, I think. I see Hermione as huge S as
well!
Now, here's a bit I posted on Sugar Quill about Feeling/Thinking.
***
Logic is how you reason, and if that reasoning is influenced
personally rather than impersonally, it doesn't mean your logic is
flawed. Personality Type: An Owner's Manual a great T/F example based
on Star Trek:
Spock (T) seeks solutions unencumbered by the needs for approval or
attention to other people's beliefs or opinions. McCoy (F) reasons by
way of human values, which dictate that relationships and people's
reactions be taken into account when solving a problem. Although
Spock stereotypes him [McCoy] as a sentimentalist, McCoy's behavior
is not guided by romantic notions or by immediate emotional responses
to life. His rationale is consistent and predictable, based on a
lifetime of experience with people and cultural assumptions.
When McCoy, Spock, and others have crash-landed on a primitive
planet, McCoy is horrified to find that Spock is willing to leave the
dead behind unburied. Spock has reasoned that survival of the group
is a more logical aim than an unnecessary ritual service. McCoy has
reasoned from a different perspective. He believes that Spock will
forfeit the group's cooperation, even in the interest of their own
survival, if he does not show the proper respect for human life by
the ritual.
This isn't an example of reason vs. emotion; both men are approaching
the issue logically, just one impersonally and one personally. From
McCoy's POV, it is not unreasonable to think Spock may alienate the
rest of the group and therefore lose the power to influence them
impersonally.
***
I definitely agree with you, Barb, that Ron is a Feeler, and Hermione
and Harry are both Thinkers (more males are Thinkers and more females
are Feelers, BTW).
<Think of the Scabbers incident,
and how cold he thought she was being. She was being a T at that
time>
Yes! Great example here on T/F. Ron's personal logic told him
Hermione was ignoring his concerns by refusing to contain
Crookshanks, which hurt his feelings; Hermione's impersonal logic
told her that Ron didn't think she had sense enough to control her
cat, which offended her intellectually. Hermione and Harry seem to be
more inline in terms of logic -both being Ts.
Viki wrote
< while I am firmly an I and firmly a J, the middle letters seem to
change periodically. And strangely, it seems that both the I and the
J are the most misunderstood of the letters.>
Keirsey actually rates the I/E function as less important than N/S or
T/F. J/Ps are frequently best understood with the question: are you a
fast decision maker or a slow one? Both are equally capable of making
good decisions, but Js are more willing to make a decision, even if
it proves to be wrong, to get it out of the way; Ps worry more about
making a wrong decision, and tend to put it off while they gather
more facts (Ps may continue to fact-gather after making the decision,
as a back up to their reasoning, while Js tend to move on).
<I don't think I agree with your thoughts on J's. I see Harry and Ron
as P's and Hermione as a J. J's have a need for order. They plan and
schedule and have fits if their world is disturbed. P's love
spontanity and change and are the type that would grab a toothbrush
and fly to the Bahamas at a moment's notice. >
An SJ is a Guardian - the most common of the four main types. These
are the organizers and the decision makers of society, tend to be
very fact driven, and are very logical. This sounds more like
Hermione than the Artisan SP (sensation seekers, more hands on than
conceptual, love of flexibility, much more willing to bend the rules,
tacticians). An NT is another possiblity for Hermione - "the
knowledge seekers", but I agree with Barb that's she more an S - she
enjoys theory, but her first love is for concrete facts. Also, she's
probably too observant to be an N. :)
< The one thing I strongly recall being told was that as long as you
shared 2 letters the relationship would work well.>
The decision making factor can be important (my best friend is
ESFJ and I'm INTP; I used to drive her crazy with my indecisiveness),
but the Abstract thinking (N)/concrete thinking (S) tends to play a
bigger role in relationship success, according to observations on
type.
BTW, there are some great books on this subject. Personality typing
is more than I/E plus N/S plus T/F plus P/J - different function are
left/right brain, and combine to present different strengths and
weaknesses (INTPs strongest functions are Introverted Thinking; their
weakest are Extraverted Feeling). To get you started, I like:
Personality Type: An Owner's Manual
Please Understand Me II
What Type Am I?
B :)
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