Gay vs Straight Marriage - Yes or No Poll

[Andrea]

This is not in response to anyone in particular's posts, but I thought I sh=
ould pop in my point of view.

I respect everyone's opinions, religious background (or not) and feelings t=
owards this controversial issue.

I consider myself a lesbian and have been in a monogamous relationship for =
over six years (longer than some marriages last). 

I am against "gay marriage" and for "domestic partnership". The difference =
is simple:
Marriage is something that roots itself in religion, many of which do not c=
ondone gay and lesbian relationships.  The legal side of marriage is also a =
large part of it, but (I believe) secondary to the religious origins. I hate=
 to step on other people's toes and make them believe that my lifestyle is e=
qual to their lifestyles.
Domestic Partnership grants the legal rights of marriage without religious =
overtones.
If my significant other gets into an accident, I can't be in the emergency =
hospital room. If she dies, I become secondary to her family (many of which =
she hasn't spoken to in years).  There are other things, but these come to m=
ind first

If a couple (whatever their relationship choice) wants to have a ceremony t=
o celebrate their partnership, they should be able to without ridicule.

I welcome positive and not-so-positive responses to this post, as everyone =
deserves to be heard.

Andrea/Kattrap