On Sat, 27 Sep 2003 5:07PM -0500, Amy Z wrote: > > Amy, thinking that "curmudgeon" does pretty well, really, and women > should just use it, with all the dignity and affection it carries > I agree with amy. I mean, it's not like we see much use of poetess anymore and magazines like Premiere are using 'actor' to apply to both men and women.