What's wrong with "Merry Christmas"?
dumbledore11214
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Sat Dec 22 01:51:12 UTC 2007
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<Schlobin at ...> wrote:
>
> Well, not everyone celebrates Christmas. As JKR said, even though
> she's a Christian, Hogwarts is a multi faith school.
>
> If someone wishes me a Merry Christmas, I assume their intent is
good
> and smile and say the same to you. However, I feel it is far more
> courteous to say "happy holidays" or even "happy holidays if
you're
> celebrating."
>
> However, I'd never wish someone a Merry Christmas unless I was
sure
> they celebrated Christmas. Not even everyone in the U.S. is a
> Christian. There are pagans who celebrate the Solstice, and Jews,
and
> Buddhists and Hindis...and people who practice no religion at all.
> There are people who celebrate Christmas as a secular holiday....
>
> I understand everyone's intent is pleasant, but I personally don't
> understand why anyone would want to insist that "everyone" should
> celebrate Christmas -- feels a bit ethnocentric to me...
>
><SNIP>
Alla:
Agreed, and to go a little bit further - I totally do not mind and
acknowledge strangers and people who do not know me well wishing me
Merry Christmas, really.
But I do feel a bit annoyed - not offended, but annoyed if people
who KNOW me well would wish me Merry Christmas instead of Happy
holidays or happy new year.
Again, I would expect it ONLY from my closest friends, I certainly
do not expect everybody to remember that.
I am jewish, I do not celebrate Christmas, at the same time I am
jewish person who grew up in soviet union, so as many jews there I
was not practicing judaism basically ( NOT all, definitely, there
were jews who practiced and went to jail because of it, etc, but
many did not practice) and only started learning about it when I was
an adult.
So it is not correct really to say that I celebrate Chanukkah
either. I mean, I like it, but this is not the holiday I grew up
with, so tradition is very new.
But another reason why I do prefer to receive Happy holidays is
because I do LOVE New Year, it is my favorite holiday ever since I
was a child and always will be. I do put a tree, but it is a new
year tree for me and it bears no chrismas associations for me.
So, yeah, Happy holidays :)
Alla
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