JK Rowling on CBC Newsworld tonight

[bdclark0423]

> 
> Tonks:
> Gosh.. I didn't mean to start all of this... 
> As to Rowling and her current husband, I would expect with all of 
> the money that she made, she probably had some therapy, or maybe 
> somehow just learned from the past. I don't know. And they haven't 
> been married that long yet, so we really don't know do we? Or 
care, 
> for that matter. ;-)
> 
> Tonks_op
>

Oh Tonks, Tonks Tonks, what are we going to do with you
..

You're right you shouldn't have started all this, especially when 
admitting to `we never studied that, or gays either for that 
matter."  Therefore you can't really base any analysis on how DD 
represents projected love and God like figure.

But I know, that your goal as a psychoanalyst is to provide a 
positive influence over the sometimes brutal machinations within the 
mind.

Let's just face it, human sexuality is complicated enough.  But to 
include emotional needs and desires, physical needs and desires, 
intellectual, spiritual, social
.you cannot, and I hope you do not, 
make such general assumptions on someone's psyche based on just one 
set of fictional characters, and what media has portrayed to the 
public.

Yes, for most Christians, god is a father figure, but that is all 
engrained into society and religion.  If you are spiritual you know 
that God does not take a gender because he does not need to.  He can 
be a father at times, as well as, a mother.  In fact, this is what 
my mother came to find out and eventually passed along to me.  She 
also says that it's through Jesus that her sexual desires are 
fulfilled.  Now, I'm not going to go and try to analyze that
.that's 
for sure.  I'm gay male and I just don't see how that would work but 
then again I really don't understand woman's need (like just about 
all men don't).  But this is what I do understand: my mother who 
being divorced for more than 15 years, without having physical 
contact with another man, and who could be considered very sexual in 
nature is very satisfied with this relationship she has found 
spiritually with her self, God and his son.  She doesn't put these 
things out of reach or consider it a physical impossibility because 
that's what God is doing to us
he reaches out to us because he does 
love us and wants us to love him.

It also was she you showed me that it is love that given 
unconditionally which is pure.  In our society today, when we seek 
love/sex/romance it is an abomination to what love truly is.  But we 
all have the idea that we all deserve to have the happy ending with 
the perfect person with the right home with the right
.whatever, and 
this message is completely wrong because it dwells on greed for 
oneself.  The message should be taught that we give love and not 
find it. Because it is what you project that will come back to you. 

bdclark0423
BTW, i just don't get why so many people are obsessed with the fact 
on all the money she's made....she never wanted to be this big, she 
just wanted to tell good children stories....and i remember one of 
her first interviews where she said she hopes they never come to her 
asking her to make a movie......
bdclark0423