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[melody_wood14]

melody 
I am so sorry for your daughter girl bullys are so different from 
boys. I went through it last year with my 15 year old daughter. My 
first advie is NOT to ignor it. Talking to their parents can make it 
worse and if she has a my space acount make sure that they are 
blocked. One child told my daughter on her acount that if she shot 
herself that it would do them all a favor. I blocked and reported him 
to my space. If your teachers and principals have e-mail send them a 
letter and let them know what is going on. This way you have it in 
writting what is going on. Then set up appointments to talk to them 
in person. This helped us with both kids. This will let you daughter 
know that she is not alone in dealing with them. Then sit down one 
night and watch the movie mean girls. She will see that other girls 
have been through this enought that they made a movie about it. I 
hope this helps.

- In HPFGU-OTChatter at yahoogroups.com, YasminOaks at ... wrote:
>
> My daughter is also 12 years old and in the 6th grade. I have 
enjoyed  
> reading about your son's project and I am going to try some of 
these meals at  home. 
> I did find spotted dick at the store today. It made me smile. 
>  
> I just thought I would write quickly on here to let you know that 
my  
> daughter is having problems with bullies as well. The boys in her 
class are all  very 
> nice, but the girls have changed this year. The two girls giving 
her  
> problems are fairly new. Well one is new this year and the other 
she met last  year. 
> Last year they were the best of friends and now this year the girl 
is so  mean 
> to my daughter. She has come home crying. 
>  
> She is a very pretty and sweet girl. I feel so bad for her as she 
has never  
> had anyone pick on her like this before. She is made fun of for 
just about  
> anything and everything that these other girls can think of. From 
Harry Potter  
> to her pets. 
>  
> Do you have any idea of how to deal with this? I told her to try 
ignoring  it 
> the best that she can. Easy to say, but probably hard to do.
>  
> I tell her to play with the boys and she giggles. I think I need 
to  rephrase 
> things better. :) The boys, though, are all so nice and although 
they  do 
> tease the girls it is in a nice manner. I think she would be so 
much happier  if 
> she just hung out with them.
>  
> Hugs,
> Cathy who is very glad to no longer be in school, at least middle  
school.
> 
> 
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