Dumbledore
porphyria_ash
porphyria at mindspring.com
Sat Aug 17 02:34:32 UTC 2002
No: HPFGUIDX 42814
Richelle gave several examples of Dumbledore not helping Harry deal
with the information he gives him, including:
<<1) In SS/PS, Harry's in the hospital wing. Dumbledore tells him
about his mother's sacrifice. Then becomes interested in a bird out
the window while Harry wipes away tears on the sheet. Why pretend
not to notice? Sure, boys aren't supposed to cry. But can't we get
away from that stereotype? Harry's never had a chance to grieve for
his parents, let him cry and tell him it's okay.>>
My comments:
I think that in general the text characterizes Harry as being tough
and very invested in his image of himself as being tough. He
associates fear and emotion with weakness. Of course Harry has never
had any reason to trust adults and he has never been encouraged to
show his feelings about anything with the Dursleys, so as a result he
is very stoic, and also very proud of his stoicism. I think that JKR
wants us to see Dumbledore as humoring Harry here, as not making him
feel embarrassed about showing emotion. I think it goes beyond a
stereotype of 'boys don't cry;' I think it's more like Harry in
particular doesn't cry and hates to cry because it makes him feel
weak, and he's used to the Dursleys teasing him for every weakness. I
agree that you might think Dumbledore would tell him it's OK to cry,
but I suspect that Dumbledore feels that merely saying that to Harry
won't change Harry's feelings of pride and his desire to appear
tough. Harry might need to mature a little more and get more used to
trusting others before he feels it's OK to cry in front of anyone.
Dumbledore is presumably intuitive enough to understand Harry's
stoicism, especially since Harry has just finished showing that he
considered saving the Philosopher's Stone to be more important than
his own life. So he's letting Harry have his moment of emotion in
private. He's not criticizing him for it either -- perhaps Dumbledore
feels the most subtle way to let Harry cry is to just be neutral
about it. Harry would certainly hate to be fussed over.
They books abound with examples of Harry's attitude towards this,
although it's mostly implicit in PS/SS. That book does mention that
Dudley cries to manipulate his parents into giving him whatever he
wants, so perhaps Harry associates crying with manipulation. In PoA
he is humiliated by his susceptibility to the Dementors and worries
that it means he's weak. He hates the fact that Malfoy teases him
over this and his other friends become terribly worried about it.
Likewise, when Lupin doesn't let him face the Boggart in class, Harry
worries that Lupin thinks he's a coward. Lupin wants to comfort Harry
in his sorrow over his parents, but he too understands that Harry
would hate this and would continue to suspect Lupin of considering
him weak if he were to embrace him. Likewise in GoF, Harry is
extremely reluctant to tell anyone about his scar hurting him, he's
afraid that complaining about it will make it look like he's losing
his nerve. Even when he finally writes to Sirius about it, he has to
slip the mention in very casually so as to make it not seem like a
big deal. And of course it takes a long time for him to finally bring
himself to mention this to Dumbledore.
I think on the one hand the text equates stoicism with heroism and
applauds Harry for putting his ideals before his worry about his own
problems. Before Harry goes through the trapdoor in PS/SS, he makes
it clear that he isn't worried about expulsion or death itself
because if Voldemort gets a hold of the Stone, then it will mean
death for himself and everyone else. He sees his own well-being as
less important that that of the whole wizarding world. On the other
hand, I think the way that Harry deals with his own sense of weakness
and his trust in adults will change with time. It's quite a triumph
when Harry finally confides in Dumbledore about his scar, and it's
quite dramatic when Harry finally lets Molly comfort him at the end
of the book. So I think that Dumbledore is just trying to let Harry
deal with this part of himself in his own good time.
Richelle again:
<<2) In GoF, Dumbledore tells Harry all sorts of things that really
aren't his business. Such as Neville's parents. If Neville wanted
Harry to know he'd have told him. Of course, after four years the
topic should have come up. Although I imagine Harry avoids the topic
of parents as much as possible.>>
Me:
I think this is an example of the changing relationship between
Dumbledore and Harry. Dumbledore is slowly letting Harry learn more
about the history of the wizarding world, and at the same time
showing that he knows that Harry can keep a secret. I think Harry
will come to understand that if Dumbledore can trust and confide in
him, then he too can trust and confide in Dumbledore. I think this is
a more subtle approach than Dumbledore just telling Harry "you can
come tell me your problems any time you want." I think Harry would
resist that, but he might respond more to a gradual awakening of
curiosity and his sense of his position in the grand scheme of
things. I think that Harry will naturally develop more curiosity
about his parents in future books, and what we see in GoF is
Dumbledore planting the idea in Harry's head of the importance of
history without telling him how he should feel in a bossy way.
Richelle:
<< 3) Here's where I have *real* issues with Dumbledore. Harry comes
back from the graveyard, port keys back to Hogwarts...
<I've snipped a bit; but Harry is in terrible physical pain and
Dumbledore doesn't do much to alleviate it>
I know Dumbledore's trying to take care of the emotional pain, but he
seems to ignore the physical. Unless of course he had instructed
Fawkes to do something (or is Fawkes and using a time turner, which
is way too complicated to be the key if you ask me) in which case he
still let him suffer a while. Is this a "guy" thing or is physical
pain just an after thought to him?>>
Me:
Well, again, the books seem to laud the wizard ideal as being tough
on physical pain. Here's a passage from the beginning of GoF:
"It wasn't the pain that bothered him; Harry was no stranger to pain
and injury. He had lost all the bones from his right arm once and had
them painfully regrown in a night. The same arm had been pierced by a
venemous foot-long fang not long afterward. Only last year Harry had
fallen fifty feet from an airborn broomstick. He was used to bizarre
accidents and injuries; they were unavoidable if you attended
Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry and had a knack for
attracting a lot of trouble."
I think this represents both Harry's opinion and the wizarding
world's opinion. There's almost a bit of black humor to it. I think
the point we are supposed to get from this is that in general if
Harry is to be the hero to defeat Lord Voldemort then he ought to be
a bit stoic about physical pain. He might just be in for a few more
Crucios and he shouldn't fear that sort of thing. I agree that
Dumbledore might be a bit more sympathetic, but I think he tries to
recognize Harry as heroic and part of doing that within the wizarding
culture is to not treat him as if he were wimpy or in constant need
of coddling.
I think if we think of Harry as a normal boy in the real world we
will all be horrified at his treatment even at the hands of his
allies. So we have to factor in a little appreciation for the Hero's
Journey genre and consider that Real Wizards are just made of tougher
stuff than Muggles like us.
~Porphyria
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