Fred and George: The Bullies You Do Know
cindysphynx
cindysphynx at comcast.net
Tue Aug 27 03:26:44 UTC 2002
No: HPFGUIDX 43200
Abigail wrote:
>I'm beginning to find the "are they or aren't they" part of this
>debate a bit tedious, especially
> since, Elkins' definitions notwithstanding, it seems that everyone
>has a different idea of what constitutes bullying, and this idea is
>very strongly coloured by personal experience. <snip> I remain
>convinced that *it just doesn't matter* whether F&G are bullies,
>because we were never meant to analyze their actions
> as deeply as we do.
We were never meant to analyze the actions of the twins in this
fashion? The discussion is getting "tedious" because people have
different ideas about what constitutes bullying?
Well, OK. And here I thought that the vast differences of opinion,
the varying points of view, and the extent to which this discussion
was colored by personal experience was half the fun. Silly me! ;-)
As for whether we are "meant" to analyze the twins' actions . . .
well, why wouldn't we be? If there are some clues in the text that
indicate that a character is a bully (or a thief, or a racist, or an
elitist or what have you), how can we be certain the author meant
for us to blow past these clues? It strikes me as quite reasonable
that JKR may have added the "bullying" component of the twins'
characterization precisely to give them depth and dimension. True,
different readers might react to some of the twins' actions in
different ways. Which, IMHO, simply means that JKR *succeeded* in
making the twins multi-dimensional, regardless of whether that was
her original goal.
Elkins wrote (about the definitions of bullying and bullying
behavior):
> A social, verbal or physical action is "bullying" if it fit the
>below criteria:
>
> -- is it behavior that could be reasonably assumed by a person of
the
> instigator(s)' age, intellect, and experience to cause pain,
> discomfort, humiliation or embarrassment to the victim?
>
> -- has it happened more than once?
>
> -- has the instigator persisted in the behavior even after the
>victim has demonstrated that s/he resents this behavior or is
>bothered by it?
>
> -- is there a real or perceived power imbalance between the victim
> and the instigator(s), is the victim incapable of retaliating
> effectively in kind, or is the victim unusually and specifically
> vulnerable in the arena targetted by the behavior?
>
> If the answer to all four of these questions is "yes," then
>bullying is taking place.
OK, I'll endeavor to keep this on topic, but I will have to veer
wildly away from canon for just a minute. I swear, I'll try to get
to the point quickly.
Something intrigued me about this definition of bullying. One of
the *requirements* in this definition for labeling someone a
bullying is that they have engaged in certain behavior "more than
once." If they only engage in bullying behavior once (even if all
of the other criteria are met), they are not a bully under this
definition.
Contrast this with the definition I pulled out my hip pocket farther
up this thread, where I wrote:
>Are the twins bullies? I guess we have to define our
>terms a bit. I'll play it safe. To me, a bully is someone who
>engages in bullying behavior, including any form of victimizing
>weaker individuals.
Now, in my mind, before I read the definition Elkins quoted above, I
would never have dreamed that someone is *not* a bully if they bully
only once. After all, murder once and you are a murderer. Steal
once and you are a thief. Beat your wife once and you are a wife-
beater. Indeed, in the case of domestic violence, the prevailing
wisdom is that if someone engages in the behavior *even once* for
any reason, the victim is advised to recognize the relationship for
what it is and get out. There should be no second chances for
perpetrators of domestic violence, it is said.
Nevertheless, bullies get one free bite at the apple before they are
labeled "bullies." Why?
My guess is that the reason we don't label someone a bully the very
first time they victimize a weaker person is because of Real World
proof problems. If there's a scuffle on the playground, perhaps you
can't easily be sure who is the perpetrator or even whether one
individual is necessarily weaker. It takes a number of observations
to be sure that you're seeing bullying behavior and not something
else, perhaps. Fair enough.
But, of course, when we analyze HP canon, we're not talking about
the Real World. Instead, we have essentially only one side of the
story Harry's side. If Harry reports that the twins hissed a
Slyth, we believe him. If he reports that the twins stepped on
unconscious foes deliberately, we believe him.
So then. Here's my question: In analyzing the text, is it really
possible to use Real World definitions of bullying that require the
observance of a *pattern* of bullying behavior? Or, given that we
have no reason to question Harry's perceptions of the circumstances
of the alleged bullying behavior, should we dump the requirement
that bullying requires more than one occurrence? Should we adjust
our definition of bullying to account for the point of view
limitations in the text, given that we are limited only to what
Harry is positioned to observe?
Now, you see where I'm going with this. If we can drop the
requirement of a pattern of bullying behavior, the twins come a lot
closer to being lovable, comical, affable students who just happen
also to be bullies.
Cindy -- who thinks this discussion is one of the more interesting
we've seen in a while, and who is amazed that everyone has managed
to stay on topic
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