Bullies
Carol Bainbridge
kaityf at jorsm.com
Sun Sep 1 20:32:53 UTC 2002
No: HPFGUIDX 43461
I've been following the threads on bullying with some interest. It seems
like people aren't disagreeing so much on who is a bully and who isn't, but
more on just what a bully is. So, being the linguist that I am, I checked
out dictionaries and a thesaurus to see what was there about "bully." Here
are the synonyms for "bully" (the verb): intimidate, terrorize, persecute,
torment, frighten, oppress, browbeat, harass.
It's pretty clear, I think, that bullying entails negative intent and that
it's rather ongoing, not a one-time deal. So, while Fred and George may
engage in bully-LIKE behavior, as at least one poster suggested, I can't
see them as bullies. G and F certainly frightened the Dursley's and picked
on Dudley, but they did it once and their intent was not to intimidate or
frighten them. Their intent was to play a joke and pay Dudley back for his
mistreatment of Harry. I can't think of any behavior of F and G that would
fit the definition of bully. They never try to intimidate anyone, nor do
they try to frighten or terrorize or torment. Those two are pranksters,
who sometimes don't know where to draw the line. That may make them
irresponsible, but it doesn't make them bullies.
Their behavior is very different, IMO, from that of Snape and Malfoy, both
of whom clearly are trying to terrorize and intimidate. Snape is so
successful in his intimidation of poor Neville that Neville can barely
function in his classroom. Bullying, it seems to me, includes a
mean-spirited intent, and I just don't see that with Fred and George. It's
very obvious in Malfoy and Snape. F and G would never say things to people
like Malfoy says to Hermione (about her teeth, for example) or Snape says
to Neville.
I think F and G make a nice contrast to Snape and Malfoy. Malfoy may make
jokes, but he does it to hurt people, to make people feel bad about
themselves. Snape makes jokes... well, he doesn't really make jokes, does
he? He just picks on people and intimidates them. F and G make jokes that
may end up making someone feel bad, but that is never their intent. And
they don't pick on any one person. Anyone is fair game for a joke. Snape
and Malfoy both have their favorites to pick on, and as with all bullies,
their victims are people they perceive as being helpless and unable to
defend themselves well. I don't see Snape trying to bully
McGonagall. Sure, she's not a student, but that's part of the
point. Bullies pick on inferiors, not superiors or equals. Same with
Malfoy. I don't see him picking on upper classmen like Cedric or Cho. Nor
does he pick on McGonagall, whom he isn't especially fond of. The only
teacher he picks on is Hagrid, and that's simply because he sees Hagrid as
weak, stupid, and unable to defend himself. Typical bully behavior.
I wouldn't be surprised if JKR purposely gave F and G those behavioral
characteristics to contrast with Malfoy and Snape. Sure, some behaviors
may be similar and you may not want to cross the paths of any of them, but
they really aren't alike, are they? We may disapprove of F and G's attics,
but does anyone really think they are wicked? The same way Malfoy is
wicked? As I said, I think the characters make a good contrast, making us
think about what is really mean and what isn't. What is really cruel and
what isn't. It also makes us think about how the intentions of a person
affects what we think of them and the kind of person they are.
Carol Bainbridge
(kaityf at jorsm.com)
http://www.lcag.org
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