Harry's sexual preference

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No: HPFGUIDX 78827

--- In HPforGrownups at yahoogroups.com, "darrin_burnett" 
<bard7696 at a...> wrote:
> 
> > And the Sergeant Majorette responds:
> > 
> > <<<If Cho had half an ounce of security, she might get that. 
Cho's 
> > failings do not make Harry gay...An experienced guy couldn't deal 
> > with it, let alone a kid in his first relationship.>>>
> > 
> > She *doesn't* have a half ounce of security. She's a whole year 
> older than Harry, give her a break. How much experience does she 
> have?  Harry's failings don't make Cho a bitch.
> >  
> 
> So, Cho mishandles a relationship. Does that make her a lesbian? In 
> your world, it seems to. Or is that just MEN who make mistakes in a 
> relationship?
> 
> You said that Harry's attitude toward Cho spells "g-a-y" to you, 
but 
> now you're apologizing for Cho because she's only 16.
> 
> Pick a side and I'll debate it. 
> 
> > <<<And I won't even get into Cho defending her rat-bitch friend 
> whose actions drove away Dumbledore and consolidated Umbridge's 
power 
> over 
> > the school.>>>
> > 
> > Her friend was trying to protect her mother, a Ministry employee. 
> > People side with their parents. People defend their friends.
> > 
> 
> You mean like Harry was defending Hermione against Cho's uncalled-
for 
> attacks? So, straight people defend their friends too? 
> 
> And how about some acknowledgement that her friend nearly ruined 
> EVERYTHING? Her friend didn't want to be there to begin with, but 
Cho 
> needed a wing-woman. Forget about the cause. Forget about the guy 
> that killed Cedric. Cho needed someone to go to the club with so 
> Harry wouldn't think she was pathetic. And that person she picked 
was 
> so annoyed about going that she betrayed the group.
> 
> But Harry is gay for not dealing with this head case in the right 
way.
> 
> 
> > <<<And because Harry doesn't handle all that drama just 
perfectly, 
> > he's hopelessly inept at dealing with women, and therefore, most 
> > likely gay?>>>
> > 
> > He not only doesn't handle the drama perfectly, he doesn't handle 
> the fact that other people have dramas at all. He's either gay or a 
> total Richard Head.
> > 
> 
> So... gay people have no concept of other people's dramas? They are 
> completely immune to it. Don't get it. Don't feel it. Aren't 
affected 
> by it.
> 
> Uh-huh.
> 
> 
> > If Cho's a bitch, then Harry's gay. Call it a draw.
> 
> No. Make better points. Don't expect me to give it to you because 
> your hand is weak.
> 
> Darrin
> -- I love the 80s moment: The song 'It's the End of  the World' is 
> mainly an excuse for drunk frat guys to shout 'Leonard Bernstein.'"


Hmmm, I think Darrin is correct, and have never quite believed the 
whole gay thing anyway.  The majority of boys mature emotionally 
slower than girls, hence the whole older guy thing. This is Harry's 
first crush, of course he is going to bumble a bit. I dont see 
anything out of the ordinary in Harry's interaction with Cho or 
anything that this points to Harry being gay!

As far as Cho liking Harry, IMO she is looking for closure on 
Cedric's death. Unfortunately she does not take into account Harry's 
age and ends up frustrated.

THEY ARE BOTH TEENAGERS!
Fran