Ron's "poor me" syndrome.

mrs_sonofgib tinainfay at msn.com
Wed Jul 14 11:36:07 UTC 2004


No: HPFGUIDX 106240

> Alla:
> > Is  it a mortal sin for Ron to complain about his poorness? 
> > Surely not, BUT it does get very annoying. I am expecting 
> > Ron to put things in perspective by now.

> Katie:
>  
> Ron's minor complaints may annoying to you, but I find them  
> realistic and at times almost endearing. I read over your list of 
> quotes and couldn't help but think, "so what?" Ron's life *IS* hard. 
> I don't think he's a constant complainer. (I agree quite firmly with 
> Del on all this, except on the matter of Molly and Arthur, who I 
> think are remarkably loving parents even under difficult 
> circumstances.) And if you can't talk about annoyances with your 
> friends, who can you talk to? Give me an ordinary, sometimes 
> slightly self-pitying buddy over a "chin up! can-do!" type any 
> day. 


I've often wondered if, at some point, Ron won't do something stupid 
(against the Cause) for money.  Not really a bribe, per se ... but 
that he might come across a chance to gain money and his actions 
might cause problems.  

As I read the complaints about money, I've never taken them as just 
whining.  I can feel his hatred for his condition, I can see that he 
greatly wants to overcome this condition, and I wonder to what 
lengths he might go...  Am I the only one with these (troublesome) 
thoughts?

~tina






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