The Dursleys and Harry: Neglect or abuse?

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SSSusan:

 So, while we don't SEE the physical abuse--I suspect JKR wanted to 
 spare us the details?--it's fairly apparent, to me at least, that 
 it's happening.  How could it be Dudders' favorite form of 
 entertainment if it doesn't happen?
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Sherry now
  I think the child protection services, here in the states, would 
have a lot to say about abuse of a child in those circumstances.  I 
would call that abuse.  Even sleeping in the cupboard under the 
stairs could be considered to be abuse... 
> Sherry G

And...here's Patrick...

What I find absolutely amazing is that Harry is as stable as he is 
considering the circumstances in which he was brought up.  Even if 
there was very little physical abuse (and I agree that there must be 
at least a bit)the emotional neglect is enough. I often wonder when 
Harry turned into the Dursley's "punching bag".  When he was left 
with them he was very young?  Did they treat one-year old Harry with 
the same distane and and ill-will they do 15-year old Harry?  If so, 
HOW he grew up to be as "stable" (and we know he's not TOTALLY 
stable) as he is is baffling.

Patrick