[HPforGrownups] Re: Harry and Ginny's romance: canon pros and cons (was SHIP: Where is the canon...)

[Rebecca Sylvester]

No: HPFGUIDX 136034



grindieloe <andie1 at earthlink.net> wrote:
--- In HPforGrownups at yahoogroups.com, "delwynmarch" 
<delwynmarch at y...> wrote:
Here's one guess: Harry was so
> happy to have won Ginny over that he let his hormones rage too 
much,
> and forced Ginny to have sex with him even though she didn't really
> want to. But because it was their first time for both, neither
> realised that what happened was technically a rape, and Ginny 
thinks
> it's the way it happens normally to every girl in love. 
> 
> If you think it's exxagerated, think again: it does happens to a 
lot
> of kids.


This will definately be my last post on this topic, and as I said 
before, we will need to agree to disagree... 

With that said, how can you continue to bring up abusive 
relationships?  I see not one reason for anyone to believe that 
there was any kind of an abusive relationship.  Ginny would not be 
as comfortable around Harry if this were true, and what about Ron?  
Harry would never disrespect Ginny or Ron in that manner.  I just 
don't see how this can even be considered a possibility when using 
our imaginations regarding their romantic relationship.

I am a Harry/Ginny supporter.  You are not.  The End.

There it is.  I'm done.

grindieloe


I must, respectifully, agree with grindieloe.  First off, speaking as abuse survivor, there is absolutely no evidence to even suggest that h/g had anything other than a happy, loving, young love, relationship.  Secondly, and again with all due respect, in one single post you (del) have turned hp into not only an abuser but a rapist - doesn't this seem like an extremely long stretch to you??  This is our hero, someone that has shown himself to have his flaws - as do all of us - but someone that has also shown himself to be comapssionate, caring, kind, and (do we even need to discuss the number of times this gets brought up??) having an amazing capacity to love.  Ok, i'm done for now, I just really felt the need to comment.
Beckah



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