parental roles in HP books

[Sherry Gomes]

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Now me:
I actually think there is a fair bit to be said against the way male/ 
female relationships are portrayed in general in the HP series but 
that is another post (and a long one at that). Realistic some may 
think them but almost all the romantic relationships in the HP 
universe are stereotypes of one sort or another (IMO). They subvert 
nothing, challenge nothing and ultimately, for all the strength in 
the female characters, paint a very comfortable patriarchal view of 
the world. And it disappoints me because I think she had the ability 
to do better.

JMO, as always.

Sienna




Sherry now:

And yet, in the series, *mothers* are portrayed as the ones who are the
loving, wonderful, giving, life sacrificing parental figures.  Even Narcissa
comes off sympathetic in her role as mother.  Fathers, however, don't come
off too well, From James to Lucius, they are portrayed as less in some way.
As someone who came from a non-traditional upbringing, being raised by my
father because my biological mother didn't want the responsibility of a
disabled child, i have always had a problem with the way fathers are brushed
aside in the name of the all perfect mother.

i think we bring so much to our readings of these books that is based in
what reality is for us, our lives, our values.  This ongoing debate over
Ginny is a good example.  I saw Ginny and Harry coming for years, and it
seems right and natural to me.  But for you and many other readers it was
not.

Sherry