The Dursleys (was many other subjects) long
Peggy
pegruppel at yahoo.com
Tue Feb 15 20:20:39 UTC 2005
No: HPFGUIDX 124611
Tonks, that's a very kind and compassionate evaluation of Petunia's
position and you've clearly thought very hard about what finding
Harry on the doorstep might be like for Petunia.
I, myself, have pointed out to other people who aren't as Potter-
obsessed as I am, that the Dursleys, especially Petunia, appear to be
very, very frightened. I've also told these same people that there's
no conscionsable reason for the Dursley's to be so vile to the poor
kid.
There's no excuse for depriving a child of food, for physically
attacking him (Petunia swings a skillet at him, Vernon grabs him by
the neck and threatens to punch him several times), or for allowing
other people (Marge) to insult a child and allow a dog to attack him
without interfering.
Harry's upbringing was brutal. I will not excuse the sort of behavior
demonstrated by the Dursley's as "poor things, they're so frightened,
they don't know what they're doing." Garbage. They're adults, and
subject to the same standards of behavior as any other adults.
DD is just as responsible. If he can address an envelope to "Harry
Potter, The Cupboard Under the Stairs, 4 Privet Drive" he can sure as
h@@@ keep track of how Harry's being treated and use the odd Howler
to ensure that certain minimum standards are being met.
Peg--for whom the whole subject of Harry's life with the Dursley's
hits some very raw nerves. Which is why this is my first and last
post on the subject.
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