[HPforGrownups] Re: Harry's Lies

[Charme]

No: HPFGUIDX 125081


> Alla:
>
> Hi, Charme! I absolutely agree with this paragraph you wrote, but I
> don't believe you addressed the first quote. Not that you are
> obligated of course, but I would love to know what you think. :o)
>
> Yes, I am comfortable with Harry's lying too when it is for the
> noble purpose of saving somebody, but are you specifically
> comfortable  with Harry telling twins not to tell Molly about him
> giving them the TWT money?
>
> Do you agree that Harry is lying because he knows that Molly
> dissaproves of twins' venture and that by association she will "stop
> loving Harry", if she learns about that?
>
> Do you think that in this instance Harry's lying could be looked at
> as the scars of his abusive upbringing showing up - namely his
> inability to trust that adult can held PERMANENT genuine affection
> for him even if said adult ( Molly in that instance) can disagree
> with his actions?
>

Charme:

No, thank YOU, Alla :)

Yep, actually I am ok with it - I think Harry is damaged emotionally 
somewhat by his Dursley upbringing and doesn't want to upset the "apple 
cart."   I also think Harry's decision to ask the twins not to tell Molly 
was also precipitated by Mr Weasley telling the twins NOT to mention to 
Molly that he knew they gambled their savings at the QWC.  Thus, in some 
circles it can be perceived he had someone he respected rather show him the 
way ;)

Charme