Protection-Abuse / Patron-Client (was:re:Blood protection/ Dumbledore and Harry)
Ceridwen
ceridwennight at hotmail.com
Thu Sep 21 09:54:10 UTC 2006
No: HPFGUIDX 158559
Lynda:
> So I take it Betsy, that the references to Harry being locked in
his room into which bowls of soup are pushed through the door-flap
and Harry always staying out of the reach of his uncle's grasp/fist
do not signify abuse to you either? Because I tend to think that the
narrator was not lying to us in the first instance and that Harry
probably has learned from experience to stay out of Vernon's reach...
Ceridwen:
Bowls of soup are certainly not enough for a growing teenaged boy,
but it isn't starving him. It's giving him the minimum, or near the
minimum, to survive. He is expending less energy being locked in his
room. Or, maybe not. Dudley doesn't get a lot of exercise even
though he's not locked in his room. Kids don't play outside any
more. Pity.
What is bothering me about this entire line of thought is the
automatic assumption that staying out of reach of Vernon's "grasp/"
equals out of reach of Vernon's "/fist". The debate over abuse v.
discipline won't be solved by a series of children's books and the
discussion over them, but children who are properly spanked (flat of
hand across gluteus maximus) will dance out of the way as well, and
children who are marched to a corner for "time out" will have learned
to avoid that same grasping hand. There is no overt mention of
abuse, and to me, no covert mention, either. It is one possibility
out of at least two more. And, there's always the famous literary
British "cuff on the ear", which hasn't been presented as abuse in
most books I've read. I would suggest that a cuff on the ear is more
potentially dangerous than a swat on the bottom.
Ceridwen.
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