I am so happy. There is a gay - Triumph & Tragedy

marshallsundeen marshsundeen at hotmail.com
Mon Oct 22 17:29:16 UTC 2007


No: HPFGUIDX 178277

> Catlady wrote:
>
> I, however, *am* disturbed by it, because what is on the page looks
> to me like Lupin never loved Tonks except as a friend, never wanted
> to marry her or live with her, never wanted to have a child, and got
> dragged into all those things against his (weak) will. He never
> seemed particularly happy to be with her in public, gave no
> impression that he was happy to be getting laid regularly, tried to
> run away with Harry as an excuse to run away from her pregnancy.

Marshallsundeen wrote:

My understanding is that the Remus Lupin was uncomfortable or seemed
unhappy to be with Tonks was due to the discrimination they were both
being put under.  Tonks was having trouble at the Ministry due to her
marriage.  Lupin was also afraid of passing the werewolf genes to his
child. He was angry with himself for not showing restraint in marrying
Tonks. Lupin felt responsible for the difficult times the couple faced.




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