From jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid Sat Feb 14 23:31:24 2004 From: jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid (Jim Ferer) Date: Sat, 14 Feb 2004 23:31:24 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape Message-ID: Severus Snape is the worst good guy in the HP universe, an intimidating, angry, misanthropic man. He appears to have been on the outside looking in since his own school days, an outcast and disliked figure who turned out to be on the right side when it came down to genuine evil. All this makes him a fascinating character. After OotP, I think I understand him at last. Snape, I believe, is a classic social phobic. How are social phobics made? One way is tension at home, and we see in Snape's memories that he had that, unable to bear the scenes of his father verbally abusing his mother. Cold, rejecting parenting is a major precursor to severe shyness, and Snape's home life makes that likely (but not certain). Another way to make a shy: not fitting in. Snape's always been described as this greasy, unkempt kid who showed up at school knowing far too much about the Dark Arts. He probably wasn't Mr. Popularity, was he? (Any parent who sends their kid to school unkempt is hurting that kid.) Brick on the load 3: bullying and humiliation. We don't know how much James and the others bullied him, but the Lawn Scene wasn't the first time, apparently, and they humiliated him pretty thoroughly. It's a scene to make you cringe, especially if you grew up shy like I did. Seeing friends being friends is painful to a shy, having to watch people enjoying what you don't have right in front of your face. When the leader of that group and big man on campus is your principal oppressor hatred is bound to follow. Now what happens? Your tormentor's son [Snape hasn't got a son, of course] shows up at school, already famous, with close friends from the first day! Puberty makes it much worse. Watching a couple hand-in-hand is a knife in the heart to the severely shy. Every pretty girl is just taunting the shy male, who often turns a particular rage towards females. [If you browsed over to the newsgroup alt.support.shyness you'd see misogyny and rage that would take your breath away.] Snape's misanthropy seems more general that that, but if you look at his behavior through the lens of severe shyness it starts making sense. He's been denied the pursuit of happiness, and it colors everything. Dumbledore was probably one of the few people ever to treat him with anything like real acceptance as opposed to the Death Eaters' phony acceptance. Jim Ferer From catlady at catlady_de_los_angeles.yahoo.invalid Sun Feb 15 21:02:29 2004 From: catlady at catlady_de_los_angeles.yahoo.invalid (Catlady (Rita Prince Winston)) Date: Sun, 15 Feb 2004 21:02:29 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: --- In the_old_crowd at yahoogroups.com, "Jim Ferer" wrote: > > After OotP, I think I understand him at last. Snape, I believe, is > a classic social phobic. Catlady digs up a brittle yellow newspaper clipping from her middle desk drawer. It's an ad that says: "NERVOUS AROUND PEOPLE? --------------------------------------- 1. Are you afraid of social situations? 2. Are you fearful of being looked at? 3. Are you afraid of making a mistake, looking foolish, or feeling embarrassed in front of others? 4. Are you overly concerned about what other people think of you? 5. Do you feel shy or anxious around people? --------------------------------------- You may have a treatable condition called Social Phobia. (snip) Contact Dr. D-- P-- at (xxx) xxx-xxxx" I didn't respond to the ad, thinking it a scam, but I'm five for five on the questions. The way encountering people feels to me, is it feels like I have an unwanted psychic ability to read their thoughts about me, so I 'hear' all their scorn of me. 'Hearing' their unspoken thoughts is much like hearing if they spoke the same thoughts. One of my many defects and bad behaviors is that I feel terrible pain from words. "Sticks and stones" have yet to do more than bruise me (lucky me), but words often enough leave me crying all night long, and plunged into rage and shame all over again if I happen to recall them years later. I perceive the pain of being insulted really as very very similar to the pain of burning myself on hot stove ring or boiling water. And I am a *terrible* coward about feeling pain. So I am totally reluctant to go to any new place without a trusted friend accompanying me for protection and comfort. Like I wouldn't go to a locksmith shop to ask a locksmith what kind of lock to put on my apartment, because I know from nothing about locks and he would scorn my ignorance. And I hate to go to shopping malls because all the slim, trendy, popular, young mall rats would scorn my fat ugly slobbiness on sight... That's me. That's NOT Snape. Even in the smallest way. He took a job teaching, and even tho' he hates dealing with the dunderheads who don't appreciate 'the subtle science and exact art of potion-making', he has no objection to standing in front of the class, being looked at by so many eyes. He has no problem making swooping entrances and dramatic statements. He like being the center of attention. He likes being the center of attention when he gives reports to the Order. Yeah, he deliberately uses actor shtick to draw attention. I feel sure that a truly shy person, despite reading how-to books about it, would never actually try to use actor shtick to draw attention, for fear of doing it wrong and being laughed at. Snape, on the contrary, seems perfectly confident that he will be respected (or at least feared) by anyone who attends to him. Snape is full of curdled rage and shame, but it has some other source than social phobia. > Snape's misanthropy seems more general that that, but if you look > at his behavior through the lens of severe shyness it starts making > sense. He's been denied the pursuit of happiness, and it colors > everything. Dumbledore was probably one of the few people ever to > treat him with anything like real acceptance as opposed to the > Death Eaters' phony acceptance. I've never doubted that Snape came from abusive parents, thus starting junior school with a big hunger for approval and no understanding of how to win approval from people who prefer small talk and smiles and conformity to fashion and small kindnesses and athletic ability instead of intellectual arrogance, sarcasm, curses, looking weird ... Still, at least when he got to Hogwarts, he could find a few people who liked enough of his tastes to overlook the rest. Specifially, I believe that his little clique of Slythies (not yet Death Eaters) mostly were really his friends. They would have admired the sarcasm and curses; they would have hated the same people he did. (Digression: because they were his friends, not just people he was using to fight loneliness, it must have hurt him that much more to turn against them and betray them to the Ministry, thus causing them to be killed or sent to Azkaban.) I suppose that one of the things he had in common with his Slythie friends was a streak of enjoying cruelty. I like to think he would be unlikely to find someone who shared that taste on the Light Side, but Harry did feel 'satisfaction' when he saw the Hedwig-bite-marks on Ron and Hermione. Despite not sharing that taste, McGonagall and the other permanent teachers seem to accept him perfectly well; McGonagall's remark on Gryffie team being badly beaten by the Slythie team: "I couldn't look Severus Snape in the face for weeks" comes from someone who ordinarily *can* look Severus Snape in the face. I see no reason to change my old belief that what has denied Snape the pursuit of happiness is self-directed homophobia. From jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid Mon Feb 16 02:38:26 2004 From: jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid (Jim Ferer) Date: Mon, 16 Feb 2004 02:38:26 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Rita, after describing her experience with social phoba:" That's me. That's NOT Snape. Even in the smallest way. He took a job teaching, and even tho' he hates dealing with the dunderheads who don't appreciate 'the subtle science and exact art of potion-making', he has no objection to standing in front of the class, being looked at by so many eyes. He has no problem making swooping entrances and dramatic statements. He like being the center of attention." There's many flavors of severe shyness/social phobia, Rita. Yours is one. Mine was another. I had that desire for attention at the same time I had that extreme self-consciousness and feeling I was being watched. But I wanted to perform, to break out. I did well at presentations and was in theatricals and loved doing it, but was quiet as the grave most of the time. I didn't have the abuse at home Snape did, but I did have a critical home and isolation at school. So I know, firsthand, there is more than one path on that journey. If you were to visit some of the so-called shyness newsgroups, you'd see a lot of Snapeish attitudes there; so much misanthropy and misogyny you'd be amazed. Most of them had experiences like Snape's. Rita:" I suppose that one of the things he had in common with his Slythie friends was a streak of enjoying cruelty. I like to think he would be unlikely to find someone who shared that taste on the Light Side, but Harry did feel 'satisfaction' when he saw the Hedwig-bite- marks on Ron and Hermione." Are you comparing frank sadism with Harry's pissy mood at being, in his eyes, jerked around by his friends? I think there's a big difference there. Rita:" I see no reason to change my old belief that what has denied Snape the pursuit of happiness is self-directed homophobia. " You wouldn't be making something sexual out of it, would you, Rita? . But it's possible, no doubt about it. Actually, sexuality is a traumatic part of life for shys, especially males. Seeing others embark on their love lives while being denied one of your own is pure torment, and I'm sure it's equally true for straight and gay people. Seeing a couple walk down the street is a taunt thrown right in your face, and you can never feel like a real adult. This isolation, misanthropy, pent-up-resentment, is so like Snape, combined with the roots of his early home life and school days, that I just had to believe social isolation/social phobia/serious shyness is a major element of Snape's character. Jim From foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid Mon Feb 16 15:44:26 2004 From: foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid (pippin_999) Date: Mon, 16 Feb 2004 15:44:26 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Jim said: >>This isolation, misanthropy, pent-up-resentment, is so like Snape, combined with the roots of his early home life and school days, that I just had to believe social isolation/social phobia/serious shyness is a major element of Snape's character.<< Just as more than one physical flaw contributes to Snape's ugliness, I think there is more than one reason for his feelings of inadequacy. Indeed, each book has revealed a new one : the said ugliness, failure to save James, career blockage, unpopularity at school, a criminal past, an unhappy family life...and I'm sure there's more to come. Listies have delighted to guess: socio-economic discrimination, romantic disappointment, sexual frustration, racial or religious prejudice, social phobia, yada yada. Maybe all of them. Why has JKR chosen to burden one character with so many frustrations? And to emphasize that some of his wounds may run too deep for healing? Much as I enjoy speculating about what's to come *cough*vampires*cough* , I think we should not expect a grand resolution where all Snape's difficulties are revealed to be caused by (fill in the blank). Perfectionist that he is, he is always going to feel inadequate about something, and always need to gain power over this feeling by pointing out the inadequacies of others. (I think this, not sadism, is the driver for his cruelties.) Potions, where perfectionism is a virtue, is the perfect subject for him--possibly if he were less of a perfectionist he'd be a better person but a much worse potion maker--and who would make wolfsbane potion then? I think the question JKR wants to deal with is not what makes people act like Snape. There can be lots of different reasons. But she wants us to see that people can be so valuable despite their faults that we ourselves will be crippled if we can't learn to put up with them. For Harry, it's a package deal. If he wants Hogwarts in his life, he's going to have to endure Snape. The question is, given that there will always be reasons for us to feel bad about ourselves, how does one avoid becoming similarly afflicted? It may be too late for Snape to develop better coping strategies. But if Harry ceases to be so sensitive about his own failings, Snape's taunts will lose their sting. Pippin From jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid Tue Feb 17 02:42:04 2004 From: jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid (Jim Ferer) Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 02:42:04 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Pippin:" Just as more than one physical flaw contributes to Snape's ugliness, I think there is more than one reason for his feelings of inadequacy. Indeed, each book has revealed a new one : the said ugliness, failure to save James, career blockage, unpopularity at school, a criminal past, an unhappy family life...and I'm sure there's more to come. Listies have delighted to guess: socio-economic discrimination, romantic disappointment, sexual frustration, racial or religious prejudice, social phobia, yada yada. Maybe all of them. Yes, indeed. Calling where Snape's head is "social phobia" isn't much more than an umbrella to describe the effects we're seeing. Many of the factors you cite are common precursors to an isolated life; romantic disappointment and/or sexual frustration being big magnifiers of the problem. Pippin:" Much as I enjoy speculating about what's to come cough*vampires*cough* , I think we should not expect a grand resolution where all Snape's difficulties are revealed to be caused by (fill in the blank)." Agree again. It's a life course thing, and being a vampire (or maybe worse, half-vampire) would be another oddity to make a kid stand out unfavorably in playground society. Pippin:" I think the question JKR wants to deal with is not what makes people act like Snape. There can be lots of different reasons. But she wants us to see that people can be so valuable despite their faults that we ourselves will be crippled if we can't learn to put up with them. For Harry, it's a package deal. If he wants Hogwarts in his life, he's going to have to endure Snape." Yes, but JKR is doing something else important. She's introducing complexity to young readers about characters, especially good guys who aren't plaster saints. Snape is a truly nasty son of a ______, but he's on the right side. Harry's our hero, but he was plain unlikable for large portions of OotP. We've been conditioned to tear down public figures who aren't perfect. The scene that just has to happen is the one where Harry tells Snape that Harry and James Potter are two different people, that Harry doesn't like what his father did to Snape, and Snape ought to remember that. Can Snape even absorb that statement? It'll be interesting to find out. Jim From foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid Tue Feb 17 16:04:23 2004 From: foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid (pippin_999) Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 16:04:23 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Jim: >>JKR is doing something else important. She's introducing complexity to young readers about characters, especially good guys who aren't plaster saints.<< Agreed. And the lurking corollary: plaster saints who aren't good guys. Jim: >>The scene that just has to happen is the one where Harry tells Snape that Harry and James Potter are two different people, that Harry doesn't like what his father did to Snape, and Snape ought to remember that. Can Snape even absorb that statement? It'll be interesting to find out.<< Funny about how we all have different ideas about what has to happen. I don't see that scene coming at all. Harry's not an innocent victim anymore. At the end of OOP, he is nursing a grudge against Snape as overblown, and potentially as dangerous, as Snape's old grudge against Sirius. That has to play out somehow. I think "Snape hates Harry because Harry reminds him of James" is a bit of a red herring. If Snape hated people who were popular and arrogant, he'd hate Draco Malfoy. IMO, Snape hates Harry because, underneath it all, Harry reminds him of *Snape*. Pippin From jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid Tue Feb 17 16:19:47 2004 From: jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid (Jim Ferer) Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 16:19:47 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Pippin: Agreed. And the lurking corollary: plaster saints who aren't good guys." Right; she's done that with Lockheart, for example. OTOH, there's plenty of examples of villains who seem good at first in literature. Pippin: Funny about how we all have different ideas about what has to happen. I don't see that scene coming at all. Harry's not an innocent victim anymore. At the end of OOP, he is nursing a grudge against Snape as overblown, and potentially as dangerous, as Snape's old grudge against Sirius. That has to play out somehow." He is nursing that grudge, and it will play out; you're right. But Harry's growing, and sooner or later he may come to the point of reminding Snape who he is and isn't. It may become necessary, done at a time of great stress, or perhaps with a nudge from Dumbledore. I think it will happen in some form. Pippin: I think "Snape hates Harry because Harry reminds him of James" is a bit of a red herring. If Snape hated people who were popular and arrogant, he'd hate Draco Malfoy. IMO, Snape hates Harry because, underneath it all, Harry reminds him of *Snape*." I think the Harry/James hatred link is too clear and demonstrated to be completely false. The fact Harry is popular and has friends is not the prime motivator for Snape's dislike, it just aggravates the situation. How do you feel Harry reminds Snape of himself? Jim From foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid Tue Feb 17 21:56:53 2004 From: foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid (pippin_999) Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 21:56:53 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: I said: > IMO, Snape hates Harry because, underneath it all, Harry reminds him of *Snape*." Jim: >> I think the Harry/James hatred link is too clear and demonstrated to be completely false. The fact Harry is popular and has friends is not the prime motivator for Snape's dislike, it just aggravates the situation. How do you feel Harry reminds Snape of himself?<< I guess I'd put it the other way--Harry's resemblance to James aggravates the situation but the underlying cause is something else. After all, Neville's not like James and Snape picks on him too. Harry was scrawny and undersized, started school with a reputation, had an unhappy home, clung to the wizarding world all the tighter for not being sure whether it would accept him, was suspected of being involved in the Dark Arts, was desperate to earn recognition--and has that saving people thing. All of which seems much more like Snape than like James, although we can only guess at why Snape seems to be so alienated. Pippin From naama_gat at naamagatus.yahoo.invalid Mon Feb 23 16:39:43 2004 From: naama_gat at naamagatus.yahoo.invalid (naamagatus) Date: Mon, 23 Feb 2004 16:39:43 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Jumping in here for short dip (and because I'm glad that the Old Crowd has revived a bit...) --- In the_old_crowd at yahoogroups.com, "pippin_999" wrote: > > Harry was scrawny and undersized, started school with a > reputation, had an unhappy home, clung to the wizarding world > all the tighter for not being sure whether it would accept him, > was suspected of being involved in the Dark Arts, was desperate > to earn recognition--and has that saving people thing. All of > which seems much more like Snape than like James, although > we can only guess at why Snape seems to be so alienated. > But I don't think that that's how Snape saw him. I truly don't think that up to the Occlumency lesson, when Snape saw the dog chasing incident (with all it's accompanying humiliation), that he realized what Harry's childhood was really like. From Snape's reaction to Harry at the very beginning of PS, it's clear that he sees Harry as most of the WW sees him - a returned legendary hero. Only, unlike most of the WW (then), it drives him nuts that that's who Harry is, so he is obsessed to take him as many pegs down as he can. Later, JKR keeps on harping on how similar Harry is (physically and otherwise) to James. The physical similarity would strike Snape immediately, and since we now know that his loathing of James ran really deep (James being responsible to his worst memory), it seems almost inevitable that he would start off by loathing Harry. Also, of course, Harry is a Gryffindor, and he immediately makes friends (whereas it would seem likely that Severus had to struggle quite a bit before getting accepted). Therefore, I doubt very much that Snape would see any likeness between himself and Harry. Regarding a Harry-Snape denouement: Thinking about the way JKR has ended GoF and PoA, and the relationship between the ending and the next book, makes me believe that Harry's deep grudge towards Snape is going to be a major element or theme in book 6: PoA ends with Pettigrew escaping - in GoF, his escape enables Voldemort's return. In GoF, Fudge refuses to believe Harry's tale - in OoP disbelief and suspicion of Harry/Dumbledore is central to the story. Soooo, OoP ends with Harry feeling an unreasoning, obsessive hatred to Snape - this hatred will be pivotal in book 6, somehow. Since OoP also ends with Harry trying to cast an Unforgivable, how about - in book 6 Harry will cast/be tempted to cast/will try to cast/will fail to cast an unforgivable curse at Snape? Naama From jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid Tue Feb 24 01:45:27 2004 From: jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid (Jim Ferer) Date: Tue, 24 Feb 2004 01:45:27 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Naama: "All of which seems much more like Snape than like James, although we can only guess at why Snape seems to be so alienated." I believe we've seen plenty of reasons for Snape's alienation; an unhappy home life, standing out in a negative way at school and being bullied are enough and more than enough. Naama:" From Snape's reaction to Harry at the very beginning of PS, it's clear that he sees Harry as most of the WW sees him - a returned legendary hero. Only, unlike most of the WW (then), it drives him nuts that that's who Harry is " Yes. Naama:" (whereas it would seem likely that Severus had to struggle quite a bit before getting accepted)." Was Snape ever accepted, other than in a limited way, a fellow teacher? Wouldn't we like to take a look at the dynamics of the staff room? Naama:" Since OoP also ends with Harry trying to cast an Unforgivable, how about - in book 6 Harry will cast/be tempted to cast/will try to cast/will fail to cast an unforgivable curse at Snape?" I doubt he will. Harry's half-a***d Cruciatus at Bellatrix, in the midst of a wizards' fire fight, doesn't mean he's throwing major curses around now. I'd prefer the verbal confrontation scene, where Harry shoves it down Snape's throat that he's not James. It'll be an interesting moment if it comes. Jim Ferer From foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid Wed Feb 25 00:10:37 2004 From: foxmoth at pippin_999.yahoo.invalid (pippin_999) Date: Wed, 25 Feb 2004 00:10:37 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: I, not Naama, said: "All of which seems much more like Snape than like James, although we can only guess at why Snape seems to be so alienated." Jim: >> I believe we've seen plenty of reasons for Snape's alienation; an unhappy home life, standing out in a negative way at school and being bullied are enough and more than enough.<< More than enough to explain why he joined the Death Eaters? I don't think so. There are loads of people with backgrounds like that who don't join criminal terrorist groups. Naama said and Jim agreed: >>" From Snape's reaction to Harry at the very beginning of PS, it's clear that he sees Harry as most of the WW sees him - a returned legendary hero. Only, unlike most of the WW (then), it drives him nuts that that's who Harry is "<< Jim: > I'd prefer the verbal confrontation scene, where Harry shoves it down Snape's throat that he's not James. It'll be an interesting moment if it comes.< Agreed, Snape assumed that Harry was an arrogant little twerp. And he probably *thinks* that's why he hates him. But Snape doesn't understand his feelings very well, does he? How can he, when he's spent much of his life learning to repress, deny and conceal them? It won't do any good for Harry to tell Snape he's not like James. As a matter of fact Harry has told Snape this already, in PoA: "My dad didn't *strut*," said Harry before he could stop himself. "And neither do I." Now, the first half of the statement is false and in more sense than one --a stag's gait is often described as strutting--but the second half is true. Snape has had plenty of opportunity to observe it. Even Sirius realized quickly enough that Harry was a very different person than his father, and he saw a lot less of Harry than Snape has. Snape does not pick on cool, self-confident people. He admires arrogance--in the persons of Draco and Lucius--and he imitates it. He was attracted by it in his school days to the point of following James and Sirius around -- perhaps even to the point of joining Voldemort. But he torments the wretchedly insecure Neville and Harry. The one time he's really brutal to Hermione is when she's already cowering in fear. And when Harry, who once was miserable for days over losing *two* house points, calmly accepts his punishment at the end of OOP, Snape has no more to say. The scene *I* see coming is not Harry giving Snape what-for or forcing Snape finally to understand him. Snape has had enough what-for in his life and even if you're Harry Potter, you can't *make* people understand you. All you can do is try, as hard as you can, to understand them. What I see is more on the order of Harry telling Snape that they're not so different after all. A LOTR moment when Snape looks into the heart of an enemy and finds understanding and acceptance. That's going to be a long time coming, considering where Harry's head is at now, but it might come before the end. It wouldn't be fair to ask this of a child, but Harry won't be a child for much longer. In Book 7, he'll be an adult. Harry's got to grow up and then, just maybe, Snape will too. Pippin From jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid Thu Feb 26 13:46:25 2004 From: jferer at jferer.yahoo.invalid (Jim Ferer) Date: Thu, 26 Feb 2004 13:46:25 -0000 Subject: Understanding Snape In-Reply-To: Message-ID: Jim (me): I'd prefer the verbal confrontation scene, where Harry shoves it down Snape's throat that he's not James. It'll be an interesting moment if it comes." Pippin: "It won't do any good for Harry to tell Snape he's not like James. As a matter of fact Harry has told Snape this already, in PoA: "My dad didn't *strut*," said Harry before he could stop himself. "And neither do I." That's not much compared to Harry acknowledging that he knows some of the things his father did, doesn't like them, and repudiates them. Pippin:" What I see is more on the order of Harry telling Snape that they're not so different after all. A LOTR moment when Snape looks into the heart of an enemy and finds understanding and acceptance." I definitely agree we could end up here or somewhere very close. Pippin: "Even Sirius realized quickly enough that Harry was a very different person than his father, and he saw a lot less of Harry than Snape has." Sirius has seen Harry under very different conditions, and Snape has no desire or even ability to see Harry as he really is at all. Pippin:" It wouldn't be fair to ask this of a child, but Harry won't be a child for much longer. In Book 7, he'll be an adult. Harry's got to grow up and then, just maybe, Snape will too. " Well put. In many ways Harry's growing up very fast, but in others, the fantastic stress he's under makes a lot of normal growing-up tasks difficult for him. Jim