[HPFGU-Movie] Re: Cuts and Bruises

Karen kchuplis at alltel.net
Mon Jan 30 22:58:21 UTC 2006


    I'm offended for everyone. THere wasn't one response that raised my "ook" factor as a real pedaphile would have. I, myself, am done discussing this with you.
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Candle 
  To: Karen 
  Sent: Monday, January 30, 2006 4:48 PM
  Subject: Re: Re: [HPFGU-Movie] Re: Cuts and Bruises


  Sorry, I reread the posts and someone else wrote the thing about puberty. You email was in with it. I am not saying that someone who notices someone is handsome or cute is a pedaphile. That is the reason that casting directors cast the people that they cast is because of talent and visual likability. I am saying that some of the phrases that were stated are "red flags" for pedaphiles. I did not post names. If you are not into that, then you have nothing to be offended by, because the comments were not made to upset you. 

  Candle


  Karen <kchuplis at alltel.net> wrote:
    Umm. I never used the word puberty whatsoever. Do not know where you got that *at all*.   I'm offended that you are implying any of who posted to this thread are "into" (your word) pedaphilia. 
      ----- Original Message ----- 
      From: Candle 
      To: kchuplis at alltel.net 
      Sent: Monday, January 30, 2006 4:28 PM
      Subject: Fwd: Re: [HPFGU-Movie] Re: Cuts and Bruises


      Karen,

      I do not work with women in their 40's who jump out at kids, but I do work with adults who have been harmed by sexual abuse as a child. As for your comment that they are in puberty, my 9 year old nephew is starting puberty and is definately too young if you are using puberty as a guide. The only difference is that you do not have access to Daniel Radcliff. Otherwise, there isn't much difference. Why would you be offended that I have stood up for the rights of children to be safe? I guess that is my question.

      Candle

      Karen <kchuplis at alltel.net> wrote:
        To: <HPFGU-Movie at yahoogroups.com>
        From: "Karen" <kchuplis at alltel.net>
        Date: Mon, 30 Jan 2006 14:48:12 -0600
        Subject: Re: [HPFGU-Movie] Re: Cuts and Bruises

        I can assure you that my post to that thread does not mean anything of the
        sort of 'being into that sort of thing'. Just as you take offense at the
        thread I take offense that our mooning over a young man as a movie character
        is an indication that we are leaping out of bushes attacking preteens on
        their way to school.  Believe me, my thoughts didn't even TURN in a
        lascivious direction towards this boy but yes, I'm certain that I can admire
        him for his attractive qualities. You wished the thread to die, and yet your
        post assured that it would not. I guess in your work you run into 40 year
        old women attacking young men all the time.

        I'm sorry if I sound a bit grumpy but this is a Harry Potter group talking
        about Harry Potter not going on about peeping on our local junior high. IMO
        there is a huge difference in what you are implying.


        ----- Original Message ----- 
        From: "Candle" <silverstreams at sbcglobal.net>
        To: <HPFGU-Movie at yahoogroups.com>
        Sent: Monday, January 30, 2006 1:35 PM
        Subject: Re: [HPFGU-Movie] Re: Cuts and Bruises


        > You said it yourself. "He is not legal yet." As a psychologist, if a
        client came in for an intake and replied with some of the statements that
        were on list, I would have to turn them into various state agencies for
        investigation. No, I do not plan on getting off the list, but I do suggest
        that anyone who is into that stuff to make their own list and not post onto
        a public Harry Potter list.
        >
        >   Candle
        >
        > starjackson1 <starjackson1 at yahoo.com> wrote:
        >   If women here were sexualizing an 11-year-old (or 8 year old, or six
        > year old, etc.) boy, it would be pediphilia. However, comments like
        > these about Dan did not surface unitl he passed puberty and became a
        > man - even if he is not legal age yet.  So,there is nothing wrong
        > with these comments.  If you don't like them, you can always leave
        > the list or not read posts related to this topic.
        >
        > --- In HPFGU-Movie at yahoogroups.com, Candle <silverstreams at s...>
        > wrote:
        > >
        > > I was trying to look at it like people were just admiring that he
        > was a hansome young man, but since people made a point of listing
        > their ages and using phrases similar to (I don't remember the exact
        > words, but "a dirty girl" rather negates the innocense of the
        > handsome statement.
        > >
        > >   Candle
        > >
        > > Karen <kchuplis at a...> wrote:
        > >   >
        > > > I have tried not to say anything because I was hoping that this
        > thread
        > > would die on it's own. I find it innappropriate to sexualize
        > children.
        > > Children are terribly hurt by people who do not think that they
        > are doing
        > > anything wrong. It's called pediphilia. I'm sure that if a man had
        > said
        > > something similar about Emma then people would not have been as
        > tollerant.
        > > Maybe for those of you who wish to continue to sexual children in
        > this
        > > offensive manner, you could take this topic off list.
        > > >
        > > >   Sick to my stomach,
        > > >   Candle
        > > >
        > >
        > > I didn't think anyone was being lascivious about it. Just admiring
        > what a
        > > dashing and handsome young man he is becoming in this last film.
        > I'm sorry
        > > you see it that way (and I include that for a man to say "Oo. That
        > Emma is
        > > dreamy" would not make me feel that he is a child molester) IMO.
        > >
        > >
        > >
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