[HPFGU-OTChatter] I need help...

[Michelle Apostolides]

> I am about to have a problem...My older sister is coming to my HP
> themed birthday party on Sunday.  The problem with that is my sister
> is against all things Harry Potter.  She has this whole black magic
> view and I know I am going to have to field accusations and double-
> edged questions.  I was wondering if anyone could provide me with any
> advice on how to deal with this.  I am not sure I want to spend my
> 21st birthday defending my newest obsession.  I would be greatful for
> any advice that you could throw my way...


I would call her and let her know that you have already prepared for an
HP themed 21st celebration. Tell her that you would love her to be
there, but not if she will spoil the day by making any comments on your
choice of celebration. If she feels she will be unable to hold back from
giving her views, I would tell her it would be better to call some other
time.  Tell her how much you love her and how much it means to that she
is present. But if you really think that you would have that much
trouble from her ( if she loves you she would respect your choice and
talk about her feeling at another time ) then you will be ultimately
better off without her presence. I am very close to my family and if you
are close to your sister she will put her feelings to one side and not
say a word.

Michelle