Bad week (need to vent!)

[milztoday]

Sending you some ((((((((((good vibes)))))))))))))

You have a full plate Sofie. Sorry to hear about that. But let's 
looks at this in a positive way.

With your step-father's attitude, would you really want to hang 
around him when you're recuperating from surgery? No way! You're 
better off recuperating in an environment that's as supportive as 
possible and your step-father doesn't seem to be oozing 
supportiveness right now.

About your operation, IIRC you posted a message a while ago about 
scoliosis right? Anyway, the operation will help with that problem. 
Yeah, it's scary and drastic, but it'll be better for you in the long-
run. I know it's difficult now, but try to look beyond the operation 
and rehab. Look toward how you'll be after all that. 

About the ex-boyfriend, I don't know the particulars but if he was a 
lousy creep, then dry the tears, Sofie, creeps aren't worth crying 
over. (believe me!) Yeah, it's hard when you're heart's been broken 
(or if you're angry as hell), but I believe if you think about this 
other person then you sort of empower that person, giving him control 
over your life. 

Hugs, Milz

--- In HPFGU-OTChatter at y..., "sofie_elisabeth" <sofie_elisabeth at y...> 
wrote:
> Unlike Jen I have been sleeping but I still had a really terrible 
> last couple of weeks.
> First of all I broke up with my boyfriend and now have an inability 
> to see him without bursting into tears.
> Then I go told I need to have an operation which involves removing 
a 
> part of one of my vertabrae and one rib. Worst of all it means that 
I 
> have to defer my university place because it takes six months to 
get 
> over the worst of the recovering.
> And then my step-father tells me that I will have to go and live 
with 
> my father while I'm recovering because he doesn't want to have 
> support me when I'm not useful. Despite the fact I'll be on sick 
> benefit.
> So I'm really sorry for whining at you all but I've had such a bad 
> week.
> Sofie :)