SHIP: RE: Questions for R/Hers...
Celeste Chang
celeste_827 at yahoo.com
Mon Feb 12 22:50:44 UTC 2001
No: HPFGUIDX 12123
> > It is so galling when you are jealous of someone and he doesn't
even *want* the things that you
> > covet.
> >
> Exactly! See above -- what if Harry not only didn't want something
that
> Ron coveted but also rejected the very thing Ron wanted.
Well...
We need to consider the fact that Ron is probably the most
underdeveloped and immature of the Trio thus far. I think that part of
Ron's maturation is that he learns to let go of his jealousy of Harry
and to see that everything Harry has isn't necessarily desirable. A
mature Ron will be able to accept what he himself is, and won't covet
things of Harry's. Therefore, all this about Ron getting Hermione
because Harry has everything else is not that good of an argument- Ron
needs to mature before he and Hermione can have a fulfulling
relationship, but by then, he'll have let go of his jealousy of Harry.
*looks back at her words* By the Goddess that was confusing. In
retrospect, in fact, it doesn't seem to make much sense at all. I
suppose I'm trying to say that, if Ron and Hermione ever develop a
relationship, it won't be because of something so petty as 'Harry
always has everything', because by the time Ron and Hermione can
really have a fulfulling relationship, Ron will have matured enough to
be content with what he has.
- Celeste Chang
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