[HPforGrownups] SHIP Re: Hermione and Ron - bickering

[Susanne]

No: HPFGUIDX 38670



Hi,

Saturday, May 11, 2002, 12:48:46 PM, lupinesque wrote:

> *I* don't think I'd be happy in a romantic 
> relationship with someone who had radically different artistic or 
> religious views than I do, but it's obvious that many people get along 
> fine with just these differences between them.

Thanks! <g>

My husband and I have been married for 12 years, and yes, we
do engage in spirited discussions on a regular basis.
We also have "romantic" times :)

But I think we truly would be bored if we agreed on
everything all the time.
I mean, it would be like: Yes, honey, you are absolutely
right. End of talk.

Well that's exaggerating, but I just can't imagine not
having those interesting talks once in a while ;)

It's, um..., fun :)

Just like list discussions, where some members get upset and
feel attacked while other members are having are a good time
and are truly baffled at what made the others feel hurt.

While I'm not into shipping, I could see the same being the
case with Ron and Hermione.
They might actually enjoy sharpening their "discussing"
skills. while Harry is obviously not into this at all.

He may disagree or not be interested, but he doesn't usually
say so out loud, at least when it comes to Hermione and Ron.

BTW, this not only goes for the "bickering" but also for
having different opinions concerning some subjects.

I don't see Hermione and Ron having such fundamentally
different outlooks on most important issues.
Most of them, I think, have to do with Ron being from a
wizard family and having never been introduced to some
subjects, and Hermione being from a muggle family.

I could see them work together well on those issues, once
they combine Ron's realism with Hermione's social
conscience.

I mean, I don't see Harry getting all enthusiastic about the
house elf issue, either.

Anyway, they *are* very young and I really don't want to see
them in an established relationship at the end of book 7.

That way, all the shippers can just keep thinking that
*their* ship is the only true and right one :)

-- 
Best regards,
 Susanne                           mailto:siskiou at earthlink.net