Dumbledore, Leader of Men (and Women) (was: Chapter Discussions: Chapter 4)
evil_sushi2003
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Sun Nov 2 09:17:38 UTC 2003
No: HPFGUIDX 84006
Laura:
> Yes, Molly and Arthur have been generous and loving to Harry.
> That doesn't mean that they have formal responsibility for him
> or that they have any "rights" in him. If you care about your
> kid's friends and offer them affection and support, does that
> mean you then have "rights" over them? Of course not. Sirius
> was exactly correct. Molly was overstepping her bounds.
Pippin:
> But she has to put up with Sirius grumbling about Dumbledore
> all the time not to mention whatever wild talk Sirius indulged
> in. Probably hatching one halfbaked scheme after another to spring
> Harry from the Dursleys without Dumbledore's permission or lam
> it with him from the Ministry ditto.
E.S
I would have to say that in GOF when Harry asks Sirius if he can
stay with him, Sirius behaves a little shifty on this, and IMO it's
probably because DD has told him of the protection. Sirius has never
made any 'halfbaked scheme' to try and spring Harry from the
Dursleys. He asked Harry to stay with him when he believed that
Pettigrew would be caught, when he knew nothing of the protection,
when he thought he would be free. From the point that Sirius thinks
that he can be cleared, all he wants to do is protect James' son,
and treat him as if he were his own.
Laura:
> <snip> It's not like Harry went to Molly for advice at any
> point throughout the 5 books.
Pippin:
> And that had to hurt.
Laura replies:
> No one *ever* goes to Molly for advice. In the kitchen scene at
> GP, everyone in the room, including her own husband, disagrees
> with her. That should tell us something.
>
>
> Here's the canon on that discusion:
>
> "'He's not your son', said Sirius quietly.
> 'He's as good as,' said Mrs. Weasley fiercely. Who else has he
> got?'
> 'He's got me!'
> 'Yes,' said Mrs. Weasley, her lip curling. The thing is, it's
> been rather difficult for you to look after him while you've been
> locked up in Azkaban, hasn't it?'" (OoP p. 90 US)
ES
>From the word 'quietly' I assume that Sirius didn't say this with
aggressive emotion, more rather just stated it, as if to warn Molly
politely that he has parental rights over Harry, and that she is
overstepping hers, and just to remind Molly that other people care
about Harry, noy just herself.
Sirius didn't get angry, rash or start yelling, as he does when we
know he's angry (think of that confrontation with Snape). Whereas
Molly, who thinks that she is solely responsible for Harry and is
the only one who cares for him brings up predjudices against Sirius
that she knows areunfounded, and the reason for this is that she
wants to hurt him, because she is jealous. (IMO)
Laura:
> My reaction to that was to gasp-what an incredibly cruel and
> hurtful thing to say! She accuses Sirius of confusing Harry with
> James. Yet she confuses 15-year-old!Harry with a much younger
> Harry she never even knew. She doesn't do any of the kids a service
> by refusing to let them grow up just because the big world can be
> scary. Guess what-it'll be that way whether kids are equipped to
> handle it or not. Wouldn't a thoughtful parent want them to be
> prepared for what they may face as teens and adults? I thought
> that was what parenting was all about.
ES
I have to say that I'm getting tired of Molly's control-freakish
attitude. She doesn't seem to realise that Harry, Herm, her own
children, can actually think for themselves. I totally agree that
she is shoving her proverbial oar into Sirius's business.
I compare her attitude to that of Umbridge, and although for
different reasons (Umbridge controlls as she wants to protect Fudge
and the Ministry, whereas Molly controlls as she wants to protect
Harry et all), both have been painful to Harry. (Umbridge for obvious
reasons), and Molly, because if she had let Sirius explain more to
Harry, then IMO, Harry would have a better understanding of what was
happening to him, and what Voldy was planning. IMO It is always more
beneficial to have an idea what your enemy is planning, but Molly
(and DD to an extent) shelters Harry far to much. She wants to
protect him, but she doesn't realise that he doesn't need
protection, and as he had already proved himself 4 times, more than
most of the aurors, if not all, and more than Molly herself most
probably.
IMO
Sirius supports the DA, whereas I doubt Molly's reaction would be
anything than supportive. Sirius wants Harry to experience life, and
as he had so much fun breaking rules with MWP, he just wants Harry
to have an experience that he would enjoy. Harry is all Sirius had
left of his best friend, I'm pretty sure that he knows Harry isn't
James, and it's quite obvious that he wouldn't support Harry in
anything that could endanger him. Sirius cares about Harry, and
probably a whole lot more than Molly, who never talks to Harry
person to person, and only bustles about him. (Define that, she
doesn't talk to Harry about his secrets, his beliefs, whereas Sirius
talks to Harry like a friend, not like a friend's mum who cares a
lot for him)
I also think that Sirius is the only person in OotP who truly knows
what Harry is feeling. Harry feels angered that he isn't told
anything, IMO, he feels trapped, and that his freedom has been taken
(at school, by Umbridge, in the holidays by Dursleys, in Grimmauld
place by Mrs Weasley). Molly even goes to the extent of stopping
outside the bedroom door to make sure that they weren't discussing
things. I find that creepy to say the least.
Hoping JK will cop-off Molly sometime soon...
evil_sushi
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