The FAQ says "Lily first"

[garyfredogal at hotmail.com]

No: HPFGUIDX 104780

> Geoff:
> Hang about, you're still not right unless you haven't expressed 
your 
> thought clearly. If Lily died before James, James would emerge 
from 
> the wand /first/. That doesn't seem to be the drift of your 
> comment....

Tina:

Priori Incantatem (US Version GoF):

Wormtail's Hand
Cedric 
The Old Man
Bertha
Lily
James

Now with that list we see that Lily comes out of Voldemort's wand 
before James. That would mean that Lily died after James not the 
other way around. 

Now, like I said in my previous post and what you didn't understand, 
is that I disagree with the Lily died first theory not the Lily 
comes out of the wand first theory, because it states in both PS/SS 
that she did not die first and the order by which she and James came 
out of the wand in GoF backs up the paragraph in SS/PS. 

Is it clearer to you now? If not, then I don't know what to tell you.