About Ron (was Re: envy vs. jealousy?)
delwynmarch
delwynmarch at yahoo.com
Wed Oct 20 13:53:49 UTC 2004
No: HPFGUIDX 116032
Paul wrote :
"But I remember that Ron was totally hostile towards Harry for the
Tournament and towards Krum for Hermione."
Del replies :
Oh but those 2 things are *completely* different !!
Where Hermione is concerned, I totally agree that Ron is *jealous*.
Not only does he (unconsciously) wish to have Hermione, but he also
won't accept that anybody else gets her. This is jealousy all right :
Ron wants Hermione just for himself.
But I still argue that where Harry is concerned, Ron is only envious :
he wants to have the same chance at being a Champion, but he never
wished that Harry didn't become a Champion too. This is envy : Ron
wants a chance at being a Champion along with Harry.
Two very different things. Proof of that is the way those conflicts
are resolved : as soon as Ron sees in what danger Harry is because
he's a Champion, he flies to Harry's side and he forgets about his
envious feelings. But his conflict with Krum over Hermione never gets
completely resolved : only Krum's departure brings some relief to the
situation, and even then he keeps being jealous of Hermione writing to
Krum. Not the same emotion at all.
Del
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