Snape
dumbledore11214
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Sun Jan 16 03:01:02 UTC 2005
No: HPFGUIDX 122052
Tonks:
1. I think it is possible for someone to be a good person (not evil)
and still an unpleasant person to be around. It is also possible to
be an evil person and have everyone like you. A very smart
psychopath can pull that off. So I think that being good or evil is
the state of ones soul, while being nice or nasty is a behavioral
thing. A fully developed mentally healthy person would be both good
and nice. There are not too many of those people around. Most of
us are flawed in one way or another. Even otherwise good and nice
people do nasty things at times.
Alla:
Thank you, Tonks. You helped me understand VERY important thing. If
Snape defenders indeed use word "nice" as "pleasant person to be
around", then YES it is indeed possible to be a good person and
unpleasant person to be around, BUT I apply word nice as more
than "pleasant person to be around", but indeed as general attitude
to human beings around oneself.
I maintain that Snape is guilty of significantly worse atttitude
towards human beings around him (who may I add cannot really defend
themselves from his abuse) than just "unpleasantness".
Tonks:
So I do think that we, who are both good and kind, should cut Snape
a little slack. He has had a rough life, he has made his mistakes
(the full cost of which we do not know), and we need to have some
compassion. Yes, even with the nasty bastard himself. If DD says
that Snape is OK, I trust DD's judgment. Therefore Snape is a good
person, a forgiven person with his scars still so visible to us all.
Alla:
Well, it is good that you trust Dumbledore still. I don't trust him
as good judge of character anymore. He misjudged people way to many
times for my liking.
Who is to say that he is not mistaken with Snape?
But, I do want Snape to be redeemed at the end, I just don't think
that he is YET.
Just my opinion,
Alla
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