I am so happy. There is a gay - Triumph & Tragedy

[Catlady (Rita Prince Winston)]

No: HPFGUIDX 178228

--- In HPforGrownups at yahoogroups.com, "va32h" <va32h at ...> wrote:
> 
> What aspect of Tonks/Lupin is supposed to be disturbing? 

Supposed by whom? The author didn't intend it to be disturbing, but
there are a lot of posts about how it doesn't matter what the author
intended, only what actually got onto the page (after the editing
process). 

I, however, *am* disturbed by it, because what is on the page looks to
me like Lupin never loved Tonks except as a friend, never wanted to
marry her or live with her, never wanted to have a child, and got
dragged into all those things against his (weak) will. He never seemed
particularly happy to be with her in public, gave no impression that
he was happy to be getting laid regularly, tried to run away with
Harry as an excuse to run away from her pregnancy.