Partner suitability (would be SHIP on main list)

[pippin_999]

--- In HPFGU-OTChatter at y..., "davewitley" <dfrankiswork at n...> 
> Perhaps I am pessimistic, but I think the best you can ever do 
is get 
> someone who will be committed to you.  If you don't have that, 
things 
> like an amenable character or intellectual compatibility are not 
> worth very much.  If you do have it, then they might be nice, but 
my 
> belief is that over time pretty well any two people who are 
partners  will find things deeply rooted in their personalities that, 
when they  come to light, will make them question very seriously 
whether their  relationship is the biggest mistake they made in 
their lives.


Maybe so, but when you get to that point, it really helps to have 
some great times to look back on, so you can figure out what you 
thought you had in common, and maybe get it back. That's hard 
work, so I agree it takes commitment, too.

Pippin