OOP : SPOILER :Harry And Cho

[grindieloe]

No: HPFGUIDX 62343

--- In HPforGrownups at yahoogroups.com, "evenflow200214" 
<daniel.brent at c...> wrote:
> However, I think the relationship still has potential and think 
they 
> are quite well suited...I don't take the ending, where Harry thinks 
> that Cho is distant, as that he doesn't like her...I think that he 
is 
> saddened that he can't feel at the moment as he is still in the 
> grieving process about Sirius...People take his failure to register 
> as a fact that he won't be in a relationship with Cho and tend to 
> forget that he is still in shock and still in the grieving process 
> for Sirius and probably will be for some months...Cho seemed to 
still 
> like him at the end with her blushing...I think they can, at least, 
> be friends if not romantically involved once Harry gets himself 
> together...Who knows, maybe she can help him through?
> 
> Thoughts?



      I think we have to consider here that Harry is a 15 year-old 
boy.  Adult men are sometimes inconsiderate of people's feelings, and 
therefore, I don't think Harry should be expected to at his age 
either.  Harry simply has not mastered how to talk to girls yet!  
This is, after all, his first "girlfriend."  
     I do not believe that Harry and Cho will be romantically 
involved again.  I do hope, as you do, that they can be friends, but 
I think Harry has moved on... as Cho has.  He really liked her 
before, but he didn't really know her before.  He liked her looks and 
the butterflies that he got when they looked at each other; however, 
after spending time with Cho, I think he realized that he didn't like 
her as much as he thought he did!  Like I said before... he's 15.  I 
think he has time to pursue other romantic interests. :)

grindieloe